Tuesday, August 25, 2009

First Day of School 2009

Here are pictures from the first day of school. For some reason, I didn't get a picture of Payton in his desk . . . not sure he would have let me do that anyway! ;)







We are back in the swing of things, but gosh, it sure is quiet around here!! I think Jaxon is actually loving being all by himself all day long. He tells them bye in the mornings and he hasn't seemed to miss them! He does love it when they get home, though. The boys are loving it, too. It's nice to be back in the routine of things for sure!!

Saturday, July 11, 2009

My Latest Project

Goodbye John Wayne . . . Hello Cars!!


BEFORE:


AFTER:
The boys putting up the stickers


The bed with the most ridiculous stickers!


This excited little boy makes it worth it all. . . and no, I never got the permanent marker all covered up. . . guess it's ok.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

In Honor of Grandma Bowen


On Saturday, we received a call that Aaron's grandma had passed away. It was quite a shock and still doesn't seem real at times. She was the perfect example of the scripture that says, "Give and it will come back to you -- good measure, pressed down, shaken together, & running over (so much that you can't hold it." (my interpretation)

She was such a giver. She gave to everything! I remember when Alan & Cortney were moving to Arizona and they called them up to the front of the church and prayed over them. Aaron's grandma wrote them a check to help them move (it wasn't a small one, either).

Every birthday, we would get a check in the mail for however old we were and they started at $1. This year, I would have gotten a check for $32. Every birthday and anniversary, there was a card of encouragement and a check inside. She was the most amazing person with birthdays and anniversaries!!

She gave money to children's church and backpacks and always wanted to know what we were doing next. She gave money towards my trip to Cambodia and wanted to know all of the details when I got back.

Because of these events, Aaron went to see his mom on Sunday for Mother's Day and they went to her house and kind of went through her things. He said it was very interesting how much and where she gave. I can only imagine.

So, today we honored Grandma Bowen. Evan had a tub of toys that he wanted to sell in a garage sale. I wasn't thrilled about the idea, but he was stuck on it! On Sunday, I asked him if he would like to take them to the CCRC and give them away. His face lit up and he got all excited!! This morning, he got up and started going through his toys again to find others that he doesn't play with anymore and some that he said he just didn't need.

I was/am so proud of him. I am proud of the fact that he is such a big giver. I know that Grandma Bowen would have been proud of him giving and I know that we may not get anything physical from her death, but I am excited about the memories of how much of a giver that she truly was. I pray that I can follow in those footsteps.

Unloading from the car

In front of the CCRC

The toys dumped on the sorting cart

Friday, May 8, 2009

New Camera

Last month, I dropped my camera at a baseball game in the parking lot & had to kiss it goodbye. It was hard to part with that little thing!! It took amazing pictures and it was super easy to operate! But, I got a new one a few weeks ago and thought I would share a few pics from it. It's taking some getting used to, but I think I like it besides the video part. When I move it to my computer, it skips. But, maybe I'll figure that out soon.

Evan wanted to have a picnic today -- of course, on the hottest day of the year! So, I put Jaxon down for a nap and we had a picnic in the backyard for lunch. I learned that Evan doesn't want to ever get married, but he wants to have 100 kids. I asked him how he was going to have a house that all of those kids could sleep in and he said he would just have his workers build it for him.

Evan with all of his food. He wanted to pack enough food to feed all his 100 kids!! ;)

The ants decided to join us after a short amount of time.

Enjoying the fruits of his labor (of putting it all together)

Seeing how many Pringles that he can shove in his mouth.

Trying to get a picture of the two of us . . . this is the best one, but I wish he hadn't been silly! Oh well. . . that's Evan for you!

Here's a few of Jaxon that I took this afternoon. He was watching Payton mow the backyard in 100+ degree weather.

CHEESE!!!
And a funny one to end on. . .

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Motorcycles, Sewing, & CDC

I'm going to throw all of these together in this one blog post. The safe haven was supposed to have the grand opening this past Friday. I'm waiting to see pictures, but I can hardly wait!!

In Cambodia, most children are required to work to help provide for their families. This is how the sex trafficking rings are successful. Parents need their children to work and people prey on that offering their children "jobs", but they end up in these rings. So, CHO (Cambodian Hope Organization) has these schools to give kids a trade so that they can earn money for their families.

The first one is a Motorcycle Repair School. These kids come to this school every day and take the motorcycles apart and put them back together. On the way to the school, we passed by several sweat shops where Wayne said there were kids sewing away inside these metal barn kind of things with I'm sure no air circulation. The kid in front is 14 years old. There is a kid that is hidden in the picture that is 8 years old. He is learning how to repair the motorbikes. It was amazing how clean they were. When Aaron is working on a project in the garage, tools and nuts and bolts are spread all over the place! These kids had a pan that they put EVERYTHING in -- their tools and whatever they took off of the motorbikes were in their pans.

The sewing school is another way that kids can learn a skill. This boy is 10 years old and he has been in the sewing school for 1 year. Their sewing machines are the footpedal kind and his little feet were just flopping away. One of the older boys said he could sew 10 pairs of shorts per day and they would sell them for 35 baht each on the Thailand side market. This is about $1 per pair. So, if the boy made and sold every pair, he would make $10 per day.

They also have an agriculture project where they help people start a business. The people are responsible for renting the land and working the garden. CHO provides the seeds, fertilizer, and a watering can. A CHO person checks in with each farmer once a week. They have 125 farming families. The gentleman who oversees this project is 25 years old. He looked like he was 16!! Their land does not have a lot of square footage, so they grow most things on a trellis system. Their cucumbers and watermelon grow off of the ground! It was interesting!

This is the lady whose garden we went to see. She gets the water for her garden from that river/water in the background. She walks down (just kind of a steep hill) with her watering can on a stick balancing across her shoulders. She fills it up and walks it back up to her garden.This is her hoe. . . pretty pre-historic looking.

Long beans in the garden
Their trellis system



Here's a picture of Cambodian school children. You notice them because they have the white shirts and the navy pants/skirts. I'm not sure what is on their face, but when I got home, I heard something about talc powder because it helps cool you off. Could have been, but I'm not sure.
I took this picture at the CDC (Center for Disease Control). This is the AIDS and TB hospital. The first time I went, we went in and walked around talking to people and just looking around. We talked to a woman who had been their 6 years. Her daughter sat on her bed and they told us she had been there with her mother since the beginning. . . the girl couldn't have been but 14 or 15 years old. I didn't take any pictures inside because I didn't feel like that would be respectful, but that had to be the hardest part of the trip for most of us.
The lady on the left (with the blue shirt) has AIDS. That is her son standing in front of her. They told us that she will stay there until she dies. Her son will stay with her. the lady on the right has TB and that is her son sitting on her lap. TB is very contagious, so when you think about it, these little boys are just sitting in a very contagious environment, but there isn't anything they can do about it.

Like I said, the first time I went to the CDC, we went in and walked around. There was another lady on a bed who was just a skeleton. Laying on the bed with her were 3 little kids. Her husband stood by her bedside. We prayed for a few of them and Steve laid his hands on some.

A couple of days later, I went back with Trish & Dr. J. They wouldn't even go inside!! Dr. J put his phone inside the door and took pictures that way. They talked about how contagious TB was and how they weren't going in. I panicked for a second -- we went in and Steve touched people! But, I think we're all fine. . . ;)

One last tidbit about the hospital. Chumno's wife has a restuarant that the workers eat in. Her and her girls did a fantastic job feeding us!! They make 3 meals a day to take to the hospital patients. How amazing is that? Their kitchen isn't very big. She had just a few pots and pans. But, she's using what she has to bless others that people might just want to discard. That blessed me!!

So, there's my trip. Trish got some good pictures of some kids that I'll probably post next. . . . might show a few from the Angkor Wat temples.

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

School on the Mat

Welcome to School on the Mat -- Cambodia style. This is the CHO (Cambodian Hope Organization)'s school that they do in villages. Most Cambodian children do not go to school because the have to have the proper paper work (birth certificate, etc) and just because education is not a priority. If you know anything about Cambodian history, the Khmer Rouge killed all of the educated people in the 70s. It's really a crazy thing to read about, but even crazier to be there and see these fields where you know hundreds, if not thousands, of people died.

Anyway, we visited a school on the mat and I think it was one of my favorite places. CHO has 15 teachers that teach 5 classes/day with 10-12 students in each class. So, they have over 600 students in their schools!!

CHO has devotions at 7:30 am and then everyone hops on their mopeds and heads out to their job. These teachers spread a tarp out on the ground and set up their whiteboards and have school . . . yes, outside.

This is one class. On the far left side of the mat, you see the little girl in the yellow shirt? She is little. . . not sure how old, but her older sister is on the left of her (out of the picture). Her sister's job is to take care of her all day while her parents either work or they are just not there. Her sister was called up to the front to read from the board and the little sister followed her. But, the little sister sat so quiet on the mat. That is a house in the background (the blue building).

Yes, this is a monkey that was at the school/house they were in front of. It was the family pet. . . yes, that was weird.

The lesson that day was about obeying your parents. These kids are role playing. The kids on the left are brothers and the kids on the right are mom and dad. The "brothers" were fighting and Dad stepped in and told them to stop. The kids thought this was pretty funny. When she announced who was mom and dad, all of the kids giggled.

Taking your shoes off is the appropriate thing to do before you go into a building in Cambodia. I really started to like the whole idea and walking around barefoot! So, the kids take their shoes off before they get on the mat. So, around the mat are all these shoes. This pair of flip flops caught my eye. Notice that the back of the shoe is gone. Both of the shoes were like that.

The boy is reading something off of the board and the class is repeating him.
Wayne sang "Head, Shoulders, Knees & Toes" with them. They know that song pretty well from different English speaking teams that come through because it's the easiest song to "translate". You point to whatever you are saying, so it also teaches them a little bit of English.



Here's a video of them singing "This is the Day". It was too cute!! First, they sing in English and then they sing in Khmer (their language).


These kids followed our van down the road to the school. These kids aren't in school, but they acted like we were celebrities. They stared and pointed and talked with each other. The little girls fell in love with Joel.

I thought this little boy looked like Trip. He rode his bike down the road and hung out for a little while.
As we were driving away, this laundry was hanging out to dry. See that nasty water in the background? That's the washing machine!! ;)